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Twenty Tips for a Positive Life

Feb 29, 2012 12:51PM ● By Diane Lang

Life: We often make it much harder then it needs to be. There are, however, many simple things we can do each day to make our lives fuller and richer. We can begin, simply, by living a positive lifestyle, a very attainable and realistic goal. Here then are some easy ways to bring happiness into your daily life.

  1. See the glass half-full rather than half-empty; change your perspective or view, and the world changes with you
  2. Wake up each morning with a “gratitude check.” Take the first few minutes of each day to appreciate all the good in your life: the sun shining, a roof over your head, food to eat, clean water to drink, fresh air to breathe, good friends to talk to. There is always something to be grateful for—the key is reminding yourself what these are!
  3. Go with the flow: Try to do at least one thing each day that you love so that life just flows for that time. It could be ten minutes or a few hours; just add flow into your daily life.
  4. Make sure your basic needs are met. Are you drinking enough water each day to stay adequately hydrated? Are you getting enough sleep? Eating well and exercising? Our state of mind depends on our basic needs being met. Make your health a priority, and good things will naturally follow.
  5. Show love. It can be as simple as giving a hug or kiss, holding someone’s hand, or patting someone’s shoulder. Simple, heartfelt touch does matter. And remember to thank those who deserve your gratitude and apologize to those you may have hurt.
  6. Be an active listener. Try not to interrupt, be patient, and let the person speak before you respond. By pausing before answering someone, you have a chance to summarize what they’ve said and ask questions if needed.
  7. Be an empathic listener. Put yourself in the speaker’s place and imagine how he or she is feeling.
  8. Do what you love by having a career, not just a job.
  9. Smile, laugh, spread joy: All are contagious!
  10. Step outside your comfort zone by taking a small risk every day.
  11. Add variety to your day. Even just taking a new route to work or trying a new food or drink adds zest to life.
  12. Learn something new every day, whether it’s from informal discussions with friends or reading newspapers, books, or magazines.  
  13. Stay in touch with your friends and family.
  14. Visualize your dreams every day. If you can’t see them, you will have trouble attaining them.
  15. Take a vacation to refuel and refresh. Vacations make us more productive and creative in both our personal and professional lives.
  16. Be a great role model—you never know who’s watching!
  17. Pay it forward with random acts of kindness.
  18. Spend less time online and more time face to face with those you love.
  19. Learn to forgive and move on; the past offers us teachable moments, but we shouldn’t dwell in it.
  20. Live in the moment, plan for the future, work on what you can control and, if you can’t control it, let it go! (And always ask for help if you need it.)
5 Top Tips to Finding Your Next Doctor

1 Keep an Open Mind! Healthcare has come a long way. Today, you have access to practitioners that branch outside of traditional medicine and aim to identify the root causes of conditions while using alternative treatments that may help you get the relief you need. Just because it’s not a pill, doesn’t make it pseudoscience.

2 Build Your Health Care Team. There is no one doctor that can be the be-all-end-all for your health needs. Be sure to have a team of practitioners with different “lenses” and areas of expertise who will treat the root cause and not just the symptom(s).

3   Environment Influences Healing. Health is multi-factorial. Your mental and emotional environment plays a pivotal role in your healing potential. Your doctors and their staff should create an office atmosphere filled with positivity so you can get the most out of your care.

4 Your Story Matters.  Before you begin any treatment, be sure to have a comprehensive consultation to discuss your health concerns. Find practitioners who welcome questions and will take the time to listen and treat you with respect.

5 Report of Findings. When it comes to our health, we often make decisions without understanding the risk versus benefits. Knowledge is an important part of the healing process and is essential to make conscious, informed health decisions. Find practitioners who take the time to explain their exam findings and the recommendations for treatment in ways that make sense to you.

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